The Fear of Failure

At one time or another we have all thought, “what if I can’t do it?”  “What if I fail?” “Am I making the right decision?” The fear of failure is something everyone struggles with to some degree.  It’s pretty simple why we fear failure, because we know we have failed and probably will again at some point.  While it is true we are all sinful, it is also true that we are all fallible.  We aren’t perfect, we make mistakes.  So how do we deal with this issue?

I don’t know if Joshua in the Bible struggled with this fear, but I do know that in Joshua 1 God challenges and encourages Joshua and the things He shares with Joshua are a great remedy to this fear.  God had been preparing Joshua to take over after Moses’ death for a long time.  It was Joshua who traveled a portion of the way up Mt. Sinai when Moses’ went to meet with God.  It was Joshua who was 1 of the 12 chosen to scope out Canaan, and he was one of only 2 with a good report that would get to see the Promise Land.  He was greatly prepared.  But imagine being Joshua, you are following Moses! One of the greatest leaders in history! One can only imagine the weight he may have felt going from being Moses’ assistant to the leader of God’s people.  So what would God say to him as he launched out to lead the people of God?

[5] “No man shall be able to stand before you all the days of your life. Just as I was with Moses, so I will be with you. I will not leave you or forsake you. [6] Be strong and courageous, for you shall cause this people to inherit the land that I swore to their fathers to give them. [7] Only be strong and very courageous, being careful to do according to all the law that Moses my servant commanded you. Do not turn from it to the right hand or to the left, that you may have good success wherever you go. [8] This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do according to all that is written in it. For then you will make your way prosperous, and then you will have good success. [9] Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go.” (Joshua 1:5-9 ESV)

God tells Joshua to “be strong and courageous.” Based on what?  Based on his experience?  Based on his abilities, talents, and gifts?  No, it was based on one simple fact.  God would be with him. God’s presence would be with Joshua.  God’s power would be with Joshua, hence no man being able to “stand before” him.  God simply asked him to be strong, God was providing the strength and to be courageous and God was giving him the reason.  God only asked that in his new journey he be obedient, specifically in regards to the Law.

We need to redefine failure.  Failure to the world and to God can look very different.  The world desires achievement. God desires obedience.  God is not seeking superstar salesmen, famous preachers, and award-winning doctors.  God is seeking an obedient people, who are confident in God’s abilities more than their own.

Many times I wonder if our fear of failure is actually a sign of over confidence in the flesh or at the very least a lack of faith and focus on God.  We must get our eyes off of ourselves and set them on the one who is “with us” and “will not forsake” us.  How could you not want to obey a God like that?  He is worthy of our obedience. And when we obey we do not fail.


Is Heaven a “Fairy Story?”

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Dr. Stephen Hawking is regarded by many as one of the smartest people in the world.  As a scientist his research is well-respected by many.  On Monday I read an article where Hawking called Heaven and the afterlife, “a fairy story for people afraid of the dark.” For those who don’t know Hawking suffers from “motor neurone disease.”  One of the effects of the disease is that e is unable to speak without the aid of a voice synthesizer, he also suffers from being paralyzed to a great degree.  Hawking apparently has admitted according to the article that at least one of the reasons he is taking such a negative view of Heaven and God is the suffering of his own disease.  The sad reality is that the Gospel offers hope to all of us who have been impacted by sin.  There is coming a day when all believers in Christ will be gloriously be transformed and sin will be done away with along with all its effects.  There will be no sickness, no pain, no suffering.  We believers will in fact have a glorified body designed to live forever in perfect health so that we can worship and serve God without hindrance for all eternity.  I’m thankful that Heaven is no “fairy story for those afraid of the dark.” It’s as real as God, as real as Christ, and as certain as His resurrection.  Stephen Hawking has suffered much in this life and I only pray that he will be surrounded by Christians who would be faithful to share the truth while not looking for a fight.  When we hear words like Hawking’s coming from someone with much influence in the scientific world it may be easy for one to get in “fight” mode and to say things that are mean-spirited.  Even biblical truth can be shared in an un-biblical spirit.  Paul taught if one doesn’t teach, preach, share, and minister in love they are simply a clanging symbol.  No doubt most of us will never meet Stephen Hawking, but many of us will meet people like Hawking.  People who think they have it figured out, people who have been impacted by experiencing or witnessing suffering in this world, and people who scoff at the idea of God and Gospel.  In those moments we need to be a people who share the truth in a spirit of love.  May Hawking’s life be impacted by many who believe in what he calls a “fairy story.”  Let’s pray that God would open his eyes and those like him to truth of the Gospel so that He can know our great God and have no reason to be afraid of eternal darkness.


The Gift of Marriage

Today Kristi and I celebrate two years of marriage.  The last two years have flown by and they have been a blast.  Today I am thankful for the gift of marriage.  God said it best in Genesis 2:18, “ Then the LORD God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’” Marriage truly is a gift from God.  I have discovered over the last two years just how gracious God is in giving us the gift of marriage.  Kristi is a huge blessing in my life and there is no greater gift of  God I have experienced in this life outside of salvation.  So tonight we will go to Birmingham and have dinner and this weekend we will take a short trip to Nashville to celebrate God’s gift to us.  I can only hope that anyone reading this is as thankful for their spouse as I am for Kristi.


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